#heather talks

[gooodtoast]

I watch all my shows live/while on tumblr and I get so angry and worked up with all of y’all and then the next day I watch all my shows again with my mom who enjoys shows at face value and who enjoys everything and it really makes me think about how this website has corroded my brain.

[wayward-rosalind]

Sorry more dragon age stuff this time specifically why Bellara did something with my brain chemistry.

Okay so like, I've been a dragon age lover for about 12 years and honestly? Bellara might be my favorite Bioware character just for how the game portrays her ADHD.

It's both like, obviously in the way she talks quickly and subtle for doing stuff like pointing things out in her quests. The other characters treat her like an adult too. The most we get is Neve very politely telling her that being a detective requires a lot of focus and it's done with imo a lot of respect. (Which also it's good because girl just wants to pick up everything cool she sees and I just now realized that I was typing that out. Damn you Elper you're good.)

But the thing that got me the most? Her romance. Yeah this game is just like ME1 with them. Yeah I wish I got more. However what I got from her romance was extremely impactful for one reason. In a Taash travel banter she tells them that she's had relationships fail because of the way her focus works. She specifically blames it leading to her break up with Irelin. She says to Taash that people would always like her for what she could be, but not how she actually is, and that actually stuck with me. (Which btw that's probably one of my favorite chains of party banter because they're both so supportive of one another just 🥲)

But in the romance scene right after the eclipse, you'll chat with her and she'll specifically bring up that your rook loves her for who she is right then and there. Just the words used feesl very sweet. It puts into perspective all the times I picked the heart option and me going "wow I'm just being nice to her". You are but more importantly you're affirming to her that she's perfect just the way she is.

As an extra sidenote: Bellara's whole story's themes are about acceptance of who you are and moving forward. I feel like the choice of keeping or releasing the archive is reflective on that. There's not really a *wrong* answer, you either accept that the past is painful and dangerous but worth learning (while giving her an outfit reflective of what the ancient elves wear) or that it's better to figure out your own path through life, even if it means always having questions, to free yourself from the path a tyrant chose for you. (Giving her an outfit that's a lot more unique.)

Tbh it still stuns me that this is Elper's first character to write. I think he did fantastic at conveying her character. I know he used a lot of his own experiences to color her and honestly, I'm happy he did. It shows.

[derpkind]

Gustav very quickly became my favorite in spiritfarer - I am normal about a man who wants to sit at a desk and make anti fascist art

[vagabondreamer]

Just based on the information I've read about the struggles of Feyres pregnancy in ACOSF.... Does that mean Nesta can never get pregnant by Cassian and give brith to his children because of the same complications Feyre had? Suppose they could adopt but there is no way they can magically have biological kids because the same biological issues feysand had would also apply to them?

Hey! (SPOILER) So during the scene when Feyre is giving birth, Nesta begs the cauldron to save her sister and basically says “I’ll give everything back” (what she stole from the cauldron). Right after that scene, Nesta tells Cassian that she had changed Feyre’s biology AND hers, so that they’d never go through this again.

The person we have to worry about is Elain, if SJM decides to pair her with Az.

Hope that explains!

[bisexualsoup]

yesterday i was insane about that fictional man. today i am insane about that fictional man. tomorrow? take a wild guess brother

[whiskeytear-s]

in my feelings & feeling extremely lonely & sad, i only have one, MAYBE two people i actually feel like i can talk to & trust, & even then i still feel like a burden to them.

i’m so tired i want my brain to just…stop, i don’t wanna be so alone anymore.

[lesbianodysseus]

Whatever happened between Ekko and Jinx during the timeskip between episode 8 and 9 had Dead Girl Walking vibes, reprise or original varies based on how I’m feeling in the moment

(Those hip windows serve a purpose… I know it)

[shrimpchipsss]

all is forgiven baby!!come on get dressed youre my date to the pep rally tonight!

[quotelr]

Be gentle, kind and loving as often as you possibly can.

Heather Wolf, Kipnuk Visits Sea Isle

[rodent--quinn-queen--posts]

So I've seen a few people associate the billford ship with the song Meant To Be Yours from heathers and while I completely agree with you why stop there with the heathers songs might I also suggest in no particular order

I say no

Yo girl

Our love is God (but I feel like that one only works for AUs)

And the reprise of Dead Girl Walking

I mean come on people feel the potential especially with I say no like I'm not crazy right these fit right???

[gooodtoast]

Why does Mac always look better than Rob and Dennis always look worse than Glenn

[wayward-rosalind]

More dragon age Veilguard stuff... One of my big complaints (ig small in the scheme) was just how... Weird they handled Krem to me. Like he's trans but it's like they couldn't actually say it. He's trans but they got amazing but def not trans voice actress Jennifer Hale to voice him. He's trans, but presented in a way where I was absolutely confused on my first playthrough why I was asking this young man if he was a woman.

I do understand that it is jarring to hear terms that we think of modern in a video game based on, while in the more middle ages kinda deal. However in the real world, the real world where Bridget Guilty Gear can look at the audience and say "I'm trans" and chuds bend over backwards to say "um actually", I need people to say the word Trans. I need Taash to say the word Nonbinary. I need them to be voiced by a Nonbinary actor. I find it better than trying to slide it under the table with a conversation about binding. I need it to be obvious, without a question, so I can avoid people that got to that point in the game but call Taash "she".

Also, both Mae and Tarquin are voiced by trans actors too. And Harding will straight up call Krem Trans. We take those.

[derpkind]

I want to play videogames and then I DONT

What gives!?

[aspiritdrawings]

One of the things that I really dislike of the musical is how they completely ignore how Chandler was a victim of SA and grooming

We all hate David in this house

[mildeleaf]

Wingnut and his moms

[buried-l0cket]

very normal group of queer people chilling on modern day earth

gung ho guns version